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Surrogacy in the
United States

One of the most supported and secure paths to family building. At Extraordinary Conceptions, we guide every surrogate mother in America with protection, empathy, and care throughout their journey.

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      2,500+ surrogates supported across the U.S. since 2005

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YEARS GUIDING U.S. SURROGATES

Up to $120K

SURROGATE COMPENSATION

12-18 mo

TYPICAL JOURNEY LENGTH

1:1

DEDICATED CARE COORDINATOR

Not sure if you qualify? Take the Extraordinary Journey Quiz

THE U.S. ADVANTAGE

Why Become a Surrogate in the U.S.?

The United States is one of the safest and most supportive places to become a surrogate. With strong legal protections, generous compensation, and access to world-class fertility care, surrogates here can begin their journey with confidence and peace of mind.

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Meaningful & Lasting Impact

A life-changing journey that brings fulfillment and often lifelong friendships with Intended Parents. Surrogacy in the United States continues to build incredible stories of connection and hope.

Generous Compensation

U.S. surrogates may earn up to $120,000, with exact amounts varying by location, pregnancy type, and experience. Repeat surrogates often earn more.

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Extra Benefits

Enjoy a signing bonus following legal clearance, thoughtful pregnancy gifts, and a benefits package valued up to $4,000 during your journey.

Dedicated Support

From your own Surrogacy & Care coordinator to peer connections, you’ll always have guidance and support at every stage.

Life Insurance

Receive a substantial life insurance policy that provides extra peace of mind for you and your loved ones.

Excellent Medical Care

Benefit from access to leading U.S. fertility clinics and specialists, ensuring safe and trusted medical care throughout your surrogacy journey.

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BEST STATES FOR SURROGACY

Which States are Best?

Surrogates are in demand accross the U.S., but California stands out as one of the most supportive states thanks to strong surrogacy laws in the United States that protect everyone involved.

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History

California has embraced surrogacy for decades, making it one of the most ttrusted places for families and surrogates.

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Laws

Strong legislation, including California Family Code 7960, protects surrogates, Intended Parents and the baby with clear contracts and pre-birth orders.

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Location

Home to world-class, IVF clinics and fertility experts, California offers excellent medical care and unmatched resources for surrogates.

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Compensation

High demand and progressive laws mean California surrogates often enjoy some of the most generous compensation packages in the U.S.

And if you don’t live in California—don’t worry. Many other U.S. states also welcome and support surrogacy agreements!

STATE-BY-STATE LEGAL LANDSCAPE

Surrogacy Laws Map by State

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Unconditional access
Permitted under specific circumstances
Proceed with caution
Legally risky
Restricted

Unconditional access

Intended parents can obtain pre-birth orders, with both names appearing on the birth certificate.

 

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Permitted under specific circumstances

Surrogacy is permitted under specific circumstances: marriage, residency, etc. In some states, parentage is confirmed before birth; in others, it happens after delivery

 

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Proceed with caution

Surrogacy is practiced in this state, but legal challenges or unpredictable results may occur, so be careful.

 

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Legally risky

While courts may support parentage, state law doesn’t recognize surrogacy contracts making the process legally risky.

 

AZINNE

Restricted

Surrogacy only permitted for married couples . State law bans compensated surrogacy contracts and most of the times prevents both intended parents from being listed on the birth certificate.

 

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SURROGATE REQUIREMENTS IN THE USA

Do you qualify?

We follow important guidelines for surrogates in the U.S. to protect, you, the Intended Parents, and the baby. Here’s a snapshot – see the full list on the requirements page.

 Age 21-43, BMI below 36

 Stable home, no smoking or drug use

 U.S. citizen or Permanent Resident

 Emotionally healthy, safe medications

THE SURROGACY JOURNEY

How the journey works

Every path to surrogacy is unique. Here’s a quick look — see the detailed 10-step timeline on the full Process page.

STEP 01Check elegibility & applyConfirm you meet the requirements and complete our simple online application.

STEP 02Screening, matching & legalInterview, medical and psychological screening, then meet Intended Parents whose values align with yours.

STEP 03Transfer, pregnancy & birthEmbryo transfer, supported pregnancy, birth day, and postpartum care with your compensation finalized.

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STORIES FROM OUR SURROGATES

Real women. Real journeys

“I found Extraordinary Conceptions and immediately felt supported and confident about starting this journey. I had the honor of meeting such loving people”.

– Surrogate Miriam Alejandra

“My surrogacy journey with Extraordinary Conceptions was beyond what I ever could have expected or imagined. It honestly felt like being a part of a team, we all worked together to help the IPs dream of being parents become a reality.”.

– Surrogate

“I would 100% work with Extraordinary Conceptions again and look forward to another journey down the road!”

– Surrogate

“I want to be able to bless another family with a child of their own like my family has been blessed with our children. I think the greatest gift is that of a child.”

– 3 time surrogate Samantha

“I wanted to help a family have a child of their own!”

– Ocean, 2 time surrogate

“Becoming a surrogate with Extraordinary Conceptions was the most rewarding experience of my life. Their team supported me every step of the way and made me feel valued and cared for.”

– Surrogate Lana

“Thank you for your assistance throughout this entire journey. I almost didn’t want to pursue a second surrogacy journey because my previous one was so perfect and I didn’t think it was possible to have a perfect second one as well. But I was so wrong!!! This one was even more magical. I couldn’t have been matched with a more perfect couple!! And because of EC, I have gained 2 brothers/lifelong friends in L & F. 🙂
Thanks again for everything!!”

– Surrogate K

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Your questions, answered.

Yes. Surrogates typically receive a portion of the compensation that is distributed pre pregnancy when certain milestones are reached, the rest distributed monthly once pregnancy is achieved. Payments are clearly outlined in your legal contract, so you’ll always know what to expect and when.

Compensation depends on several factors, including where you live, whether it’s your first or a repeat journey, the type of pregnancy (singleton or multiples), and the program that you are qualified for. In some states like California, compensation is often higher due to local demand and progressive laws.

Absolutely. Many women choose to have more than one surrogacy journey. In fact, repeat surrogates often receive a higher compensation package because of their previous experience. Most clinics recommend waiting at least 6 months after a vaginal delivery and 12-18 months after a c-section delivery before beginning another surrogacy journey. This gives your body time to heal and ensures you’re ready physically and emotionally for another safe, supported experience.

Women who are healthy, have had at least one successful pregnancy of their own, and meet basic medical and lifestyle requirements can apply. Our team will guide you through the screening process to confirm eligibility.

Every journey is unique, but most surrogacy processes take between 12 and 18 months from application to delivery. Factors like medical clearance, matching, and the embryo transfer timeline can affect the length.

From the moment you apply, you’ll have a dedicated coordinator, access to trusted medical and legal guidance, professional psychological support and emotional care along the way. We also connect you with a community of other surrogates, so you’re supported by women who truly understand this experience.

All medical, legal, and related costs are fully covered by the intended parents. This includes your attorney fees, medical screening, fertility treatments, maternity care, and insurance coverage.

Yes! Matching is always mutual. We’ll present you with intended parent profiles, and you’ll have the opportunity to choose who feels right for you. The intended parents must also feel the same, so it’s a true partnership from the start.

If that happens, your clinic will work with you on preparing for another transfer, with all costs covered by the intended parents. Your legal contract will also outline how many transfer attempts are included.

In the US, surrogacy is usually commercial, which means surrogates receive compensation for their time and commitment. In some other countries, surrogacy is altruistic, meaning surrogates are only reimbursed for expenses. Both arrangements honor surrogates, but in the US, compensation is an important part of the process.